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The Personalization of Social (Or Why We Need to be Architects)

The dialogue between client and architect is about as intimate as any conversation you can have, because when you’re talking about building a house, you’re talking about dreams. ~ Robert A. M. Stern

It’s funny how our mindsets change with the onset of age. Or experience. Or a mixture of both.

Take social media. When it first started gaining traction with the masses around 2009, it was seen as “the great connector” – a way for everyone to share, learn, support, and more.

Then, brands came along and got involved. Social media changed (though let’s not solely blame the brands for that).

Interaction was replaced with reaction; talk with was replaced with talk?to; and a piece of intimacy was lost.

The result? Many social networks seeing a decline in both usage and users.

Plus ca change.

Personalization

But then a funny thing happened. People clamoured for the personal. Communities of large and disparate became micro-communities of small and connected.

Blogs became more focused on the moment as opposed to the momentous. Bloggers stopped chasing numbers and instead started focusing on the people behind the numbers.

Channels gave way to channeled focus. And it’s glorious.

Personal notes for personal readers. Personal replies from personal thought providers. No mass sharing. No mass consumption.

It’s the antithesis of the chase for social proof and maybe – just maybe – the way forward as we look to reclaim the magic of intimacy on the social web.

Here’s to the journey.

If You Enjoy This Blog, Want to Help Needy Children?

Kids

So I try not to use this blog too much for personal reasons (like ads, promos, etc), but for the following, I’m going to make an exception.

The Toys for Tots program?has one simple goal: to bring the joy of Christmas to needy children.

Its bigger picture goal is just as inspiring – “to deliver a message of hope that builds self-esteem, and motivate kids to grow into responsible adults that become productive and valuable members of the community.”

It’s a wonderful initiative that brings so much joy and happiness to kids (and families) that otherwise don’t have a lot to smile about at this time of year.

And I’d like to ask a favour.

Turning Content and Conversations into Toys

I’ve run this blog for almost 8 years now, and hopefully during that time you’ve found something that’s interested you, or made you think differently.

Additionally, there have been literally thousands of discussions, both in the comments and on social, around a post’s topic or idea.

So, here’s the favour.

If you’ve found some value in this blog, how would you like to “return” that and help my wife Jaclyn and five-year old son Ewan raise some funds and deliver a smile to kids this Christmas?

Not only that, you have the chance of winning some very timely (and very cool) Mary Kay products for men and women.

Interested? Here’s the skinny:

  • Make a donation of either $2, $5 or $10 or $20?to my wife’s Toys for Tots drive. This can be done by sending the amount to Jaclyn’s PayPal account
  • You could win one of three prizes (see main image below): Satin Hands Set (value $51), MK Men’s Grooming Set (value $53), or $100 prize certificate to spend on any MK product

Toys for Tots

  • Everyone that donates the $2 or $5 amount can choose to receive a free copy of either my Parables of Business ebook, or Why Simple Matters ebook
  • Everyone that donates $10 or $20?will receive a free copy of both ebooks
  • The draw is for anyone, anywhere. My wife will ship the prizes out to you after the draw date (so hopefully they’ll be there for Christmas).

On the draw date – Tuesday December 8 – the winners will be notified by the email provided to PayPal (and I’ll update this post accordingly), and the amount raised tallied.

Then, a couple of days after that, my wife will take our son to the local Toys’R’Us and buy a whole bunch of toys to take to Halton Police, who’re arranging the Toys for Tots drive.

Help Make Needy Kids (and my son!) Smile This Christmas

So, that’s my favour. If you wish to donate and help, that’d be so awesome and appreciated like you would not believe.

If you can’t donate, no worries, but perhaps you could share this post (and Jaclyn and Ewan’s goal) with someone who can?

Either way, thanks for reading and considering, and I’ll leave you with some final words from my wife:

My 5-year-old is learning that there are kids out there who have nothing, and he wants to help. Please help me, help my son, help others. Every little bit helps! Thank you xox

Jaclyn and Ewan

Thanks, guys,

Danny.

Note: Donations should be in by 11.59pm on Sunday December 6th, 2015. DONATE NOW.

Updated:?the three prize winners were Diane Veveiros Kralj, Delton Alves, and Dawn Vanson. The final tally raised was $490.40 – woot!

Perhaps Tomorrow

Homeward bound, to the clackety???clack of the track.?Strangers all around, though not by sight. Tired eyes, looking for the landmarks that signal home.

The windows beckon, offering stolen glances of a landscape we knew much better in the light of half a day ago.

Muted notes from bands we?ll never know, headphones offering solace from the silence that engulfs.

Stolen glances. Untold stories. Lives crisscrossing, yet not.

The city lights near. The shuffled gait begins. Together we move, but as individuals.

Disembark and depart. The white lined boxes empty one by one, until as barren as the opportunity to connect.

Home. Sanctuary. Familiarity. Warmth.

At least for some.

Perhaps tomorrow we?ll learn another?s life. Perhaps tomorrow we?ll offer up a smile. Perhaps tomorrow we?ll unburden the burdened.

Tomorrow?s another day, after all. No need to change today what can wait until tomorrow.

It?s not like tomorrow will never come, after all.

Yes, perhaps tomorrow.

The One Simple Reason Against Switching Off Blog Comments

Ignore

A recent blog post by Arik Hanson, that looked at seven trends impacting every blogger, caught my attention the other week.

I’ve read Arik’s blog for a good few years now, and his content is always informative, and not afraid to poke the bear and challenge standard thinking when it comes to content. This blogging trends post was no different.

It covered topics like RSS being retired soon (which I agree with), the changing face of content presentation, and social sharing losing traction, amongst other things.

One trend that stood out, though, was Arik’s belief that blog comments were “officially dead”.

Based on the examples of Copyblogger and others, Arik feels that we’ll see even more content creators and blogs switch off comments in the months ahead.

That may be indeed be true – but as anyone that’s read this blog for a while will know, it’s not something I buy into, and an approach I wouldn’t recommend for one simple reason.

You Care, But You Don’t Really

Imagine you go to an event where there’s a guest speaker. You pay your dollars to attend, and you allocate a certain amount of time to be at the event.

The speaker is entertaining, the topic is something you’re interested in, and the speech gets your mind buzzing with so many follow-up ideas.

Ideas that need answers.

Ideas that only questions to the speaker can answer.

So, you wait in line after the event so you can meet the speaker, thank them for their work, and ask your follow-up question that would expand the speaker’s talk.

Finally, you get your chance to ask a question, and…. silence. A blank stare. A look that acknowledges your presence, but nothing more.

Undeterred, you ask another question. Equally undeterred, the speaker offers the same response as before.

Suddenly, you realize that it’s not just you that’s being ignored – everyone is.

Everyone that wanted to publicly thank the speaker is being ignored. Everyone who wanted to add to the topic is being ignored.

Instead, there are various rooms that are roped off where you can go instead, with the vague promise that there may be an answer or two there.

Sound familiar?

Time is Investment Too

We have a lot of distractions. Both as content creators and content consumers, there’s a hell of a lot of competition vying for our attention.

Because of that, the readers that choose to visit your little part of the web are investing in you. Sure, they may not be financially investing – but they’re investing nonetheless.

That time that could be spent elsewhere. The exchange of knowledge that could be shared elsewhere. The referral of other readers in search of somewhere they can invest too.

All of that comes from comments.

Yes, the content attracts. Yes, the content educates. Yes, the content sparks ideas.

But the content eventually draws a blank – because it’s a finite resource.

Finite content

If the content on display doesn’t quite satiate the reader’s appetite, the comments after the post can. And usually do.

Because now you’re not just tied to the one-directional broadcast of the content creator – now you have the years of experience, wisdom and ?questioning viewpoints of other attendees.

Because of that, your investment is rewarded. You leave wiser, and you help others leave wiser too.

Whether the wisdom comes from extra knowledge about the topic at hand, or a new mindset about an offshoot of the topic you’d never considered, it’s return for your investment in that part of the web.

Spend Your Money Wisely

The kicker for many of the blogs that have switched off comments is the invitation to “continue the conversation elsewhere”.

This is followed by a link to that content creator’s Facebook page, or Google+ community, or Twitter stream, etc.

All well and good – after all, they’re not saying they don’t value your opinion, they just want to have it elsewhere (after all, that’s where all the cool chat is happening).

But then you land on one of these other channels, and the two-way dialogue is equally non-existent.

Instead, it’s a broadcast-fest of links to their content. You know – the very content they don’t want to talk to you about, but come to this channel you’re on now to continue the conversation…

And so the circle goes.

[clickToTweet tweet=”Switching off #blog comments doesn’t enhance a reader’s experience – it hinders it. ” quote=”Switching off blog comments doesn’t enhance a reader’s experience – it hinders it. “]

Look, I get it. As I mentioned earlier in this post, time is a commodity we have increasingly little of.

So I get that you don’t want to spend that time talking when you could just as easily be broadcasting.

Just be honest about it.

If you want to be a broadcast channel (whether that’s your blog, social network, email blast or whatever), go ahead and knock yourself out.

But let’s not pretend that blog comments are being switched off to “offer a better experience more attuned to the reader’s choice.”

Instead, if you really care about the thoughts of your readers, and the discussions they want to have, it’s a simple decision – leave the blog comments on.

And if you’re a reader/commenter, choose better places to spend your investments – there are enough of them about.

And they really do care about your investment – you can trust me on that.

Humanity

We all have a choice when it comes to the humanity we show to others.

Humanity

 

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